Life has many questions but no one know where it could be. As child of the family we have a responsibility to take care of parents throughout their lives. Everyone knows it. Now question is what if they belong to the poor family. A child who just turn 23-24 years old.she had to take the burden of the family where their is nothing about income strategy. Everyone says you are the child of the family, your family had sacrifice to give you good education, now it's time to fulfill your duty. Now may I ask a question could a 23-24 year child had to take responsibility of the whole family his father, mother, sister, brother, uncle and aunt and grandmother but isn't it unfair to a 23 years old girl. Okay 23 years is enough to except the burden of the family I except it, shouldn't the family should share the burden too with her. Isn't this called a family. But instead of helping, they are competing with each like who works or earn money in the family, who is providing the income, who is valuable who is not. If you are able to earn more money than you are valuable but if you are not able to then your are useless. Day and night drinking, only think about themself. A father thought is like I have enough struggle in life now, whatever duty is supposed to do he had already done. Doesn't matter that in a family even if a eldest daughter is started to earn, their is still little boy and girl who just started studying. His mentality is that now it's your turn to take responsibility since you are adult now. A mother mentality is that she is the one who works and always do but no one cares about her. She will be emotional while drinking and blackmail that no one cares about her and no one cares about her mother (grandmother). But may i know if a mere family who can't even afford a single meal in a day will they able to help her and as a family didn't she knows how much the family is suffering. And more than that how does she thinks that a mere 23 years old girls who is just starting to earn with 5k earning in a month can she helps her. And how can she think that her own children care about her. Aren't we trying to help her day and night even if we can't afford anything. People says that a mother and father is like a God, they will do anything for their child even hell can't defeat it. But here it feels like a child should sacrifice for them. Okay as a child of the family we have to take responsibility one day and everyone does. No question about that and who wouldn't be. We already knows that they sacrifice a lot and we are very clear about it. But saying that you are already grown up or I can't handle anymore trouble or anymore pressure because of poverty, can't stand having no money because of this they will drink whole day, argue with each other and make enemies with everyone is this the good example you guys showing to your children. Shouldn't they at least try to be supportive with each other and always try to motivate each other. In each and every household even if they are in poverty, at least they try to help each other, carry the burden for each other and try to motivate their children to be successful in life. But here in this household before the children, the parents gave up in life and enjoy drinking alcohol and making chaos and emotionally blackmailing their children. May I asked the God, is this mentality good for children. Not everyone is a saint we know it but shouldn't we at least deserve to live a peaceful life. People says as a adult you have to share the burden of the family now and we except it, but mind says untill how much we can be, emotionally tired, exhausted, with no support from anyone. Career failure, worried about siblings career, parents health and income of the family. No one can run away from responsibility but shouldn't they give time to them too.
My humble request if you don't want to take responsibility in life than please don't ever get married in a life time. If you don't love anyone please never get married in life even if its arrange marriage where afterwards you will have to say that i have done enough responsibility for them. Now I am done for it. After all at the end the children have to suffer for their incompetent.
